IMPLEMENTATION OF INSTILLING BIRRUL WĀLIDAIN VALUES IN CHILDREN

Abstract

Today's in this modern era, the development and sophistication of science and technology, but does not demand the possibility of moral degradation and moral deterioration in children, especially the morals of children to their parents. The scope of children's socialization is getting wider with various interests behind it, so most of them have put aside the sacred Birrul Wālidain values. Many of the children have dared to fight and disobey their parents just because their wishes are not fulfilled or even ashamed to recognize their parents in front of their friends because of the economic and social level of their parents who are backward and considered low. So in this study, the researchers want to examine deeply about the implementation of instilling the values of Birrul Wālidain in children, as a form of realization of strengthening children's morals, so that children become persons who are devoted to their parents, because the morals embedded in children will be formed through daily habits. This research uses qualitative research, with data collection techniques, interviews, observation, and documentation. The object of research is in Soloh Dajah Hamlet, Murtajih Village, Pademawu District, Pamekasan Regency. The results of this research, are, that the programs formed to instill the Birrul Wālidain values include, saying greetings and shaking hands when entering and leaving the house, instilling soft speech patterns to all elders, reading prayers to parents, every time after prayer, saving from the remaining pocket money given by parents.